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The Night We Escaped My Friends’ Dad Violence

Posted on June 25, 2016 by Phuc

These are different friends who also lived through domestic violence, but sadly these friends were also there when I Witnessed My [other] Friend’s Mom Get Beaten for “Disrespecting” Husband. With a lot of discussion on the Stanford rape case, and … Continue reading →

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I Witnessed My Friend’s Mom Get Beaten for “Disrespecting” Husband

Posted on June 22, 2016 by Phuc

As a kid, it was “normal” to see wives get beaten for disrespecting their husbands, even in front of a crowd.  With a lot of discussion on the Stanford rape case, and sexual violence, I continue to share some things … Continue reading →

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His Retaliation When I Rejected His Advances

Posted on June 21, 2016 by Phuc

With a lot of discussion on the Stanford rape case, and of sexual violence, I thought it’s time to share some things most of you don’t know about my life, in a series of blog posts on assault, domestic violence … Continue reading →

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Unintentional Relationship/Friendship Sabotage

Posted on January 14, 2013 by Phuc

One of the worse habits one can do is unintentionally sabotaging a relationship or friendship before it really begins, and I am guilty of that.  After being hurt many times or even once, it is easy for one to fall … Continue reading →

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Loneliness II

Posted on December 9, 2012 by Phuc

Loneliness is when you want to love someone but they refuse to love you back. Loneliness is thinking of others first, but chosen last, thought of last, or not being thought of at all.  Loneliness is losing important people permanently, … Continue reading →

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Girls Expectations and Demands – (Part 2 – “Good Behavior”)

Posted on July 24, 2012 by Phuc

…Continued from: Part 1 – Career Aspirations As the saying goes: “Well-Behaved women seldom make history.”  I did grow up in a strict Asian cultural setting.  Luckily, my particular culture does NOT promote killing their own daughters for dishonoring.   … Continue reading →

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Valentine’s Day Next Month

Posted on January 3, 2012 by Phuc

Valentine’s Day is next month, so in honor of this day of love, I will try to focus on topics of love, relationships, and friendships; experiences, lessons learned, and advice, over the next few weeks and also recap on some … Continue reading →

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Controlled by Passive Aggressiveness

Posted on September 14, 2011 by Phuc

I came to a realization that I have been letting others’ passive aggressiveness control me again and I am disappointed in myself for falling for it again. Is this or could this be happening to YOU too without realizing it? … Continue reading →

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I Would Sacrifice My Happiness For You

Posted on August 22, 2011 by Phuc

Friends, Family, Significant Others (boyfriend, girlfriend, spouse), children, etc.  We all want what’s best for those we care about and we may give a lot, give up a lot or compromise for them even if it means “giving up” our … Continue reading →

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How Do (or Did) You Deal With Abuse?

Posted on August 4, 2011 by Phuc

After watching Jaycee Dugard’s interview about her terrible 18 year kidnapping, other survivor’s stories, and years of hearing stories from friends’ abuse from people they know and being involved 1st hand with some situations myself, I thought I should write … Continue reading →

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